Meeting the right person sounds like a cliche'. Is there a such thing as the right person? I have met alot of men that if you pull something from each one it would male up the perfect man! This last one made a impact on me like I never thought could happen. He was the coolest with the exceptions of NOT returning my calls and Not doing what he said he would..... Funny huh? He talked a good talk but just couldn't walk the walk. Man, but that talk sure did sound good...lol If you were to ask me what kinda man I wanted it would be him with a few minor tweeks....But we all learn from our mistakes and past relationships they hurt for a while but then we all move on and hopefully find that ONE! But as for now I hurting but, I know he was not the one I just thought he was!!!! Key Word Thought.....lol I think I need to Stop Thinking!!! lol lol
wrote 01/27/2012....
Sunday, February 19, 2012
What is Mr. Right on Time vs Mr.Right?
Recently I saw a post on a website from a guy that said "LISTEN LADIES....MR.RIGHT DOES NOT EXIST.......BUT MR.RIGHT ON TIME DOES.....TWIRK MR. RIGHT ON TIME..... AND YOU JUST MAY HAVE YOUR MR. RIGHT".... So what does this really mean? You can look at this 2 ways.
One way to look at this is that nobodies perfect and that women need to take a look at their expectations and ask if they are realistic. If your expectations are unreachable then you will never be satisfied with anyone. Its one thing to demand respect and another to be nit picky about thing that shouldn't matter. I don't agree that their is NO Mr.Right. We all know what we want in a relationship and I gotta believe that their is a Man out there that can give me at least 80% of that. I know that we all have to make compromises in relationships but, I feel that most things can be over looked as long as the Love, Respect and Monogamy is there. OK, so he leaves the toilet seat up!...lol is that really a reason to kick him to the curb? Its all about realistic expectation and letting him know what you want up front. So if he messes up he has been warned and if he continues then you make the choice if this is something you can or can not live with, or if he is someone you can't live with out. Most men are not aware of some of the things they do wrong that we consider unacceptable..... so talk to your man let him know whats up and If he cont's then you don't need him anyway! On the other hand this could mean that MR. Right on Time is someone that you are settling for and trying to TWIRK to make it work! Now all been in this situation and we know this is some bull.... We are all adults and frankly getting to old to be wasting time with things or people we know are not what we really want! If you have a MR. Right now see it for what it is because trust me a man does. He will ride it to the wheel fall off and think everything is cool mean while you are the person that is Un-happy! Don't fall for MR. Right On Time just for the sake of saying that you have a Man!!! In the end we can all do Bad by ourselves. Mr. Right On Time will have his cake and eat all of yours, while you are starving for Love and Attention..... But in this situation how can you complain about it because you knew in the first place that this was Mr. Right On Time and in most cases he also Let you know what it was! So don't trick yourself into false illusions and see thing for what they are. Either you can continue to Kiss many frogs to get to that Prince. Or you can live with the fact that he is a Frog and over look the fact that he is not a Prince. I feel that as long as you are happy and he is providing you with Honesty, Love and Ccommitment you can then TWIRK the other little things and he will be your MR.RIGHT and that will come Right on time!!!!!
One way to look at this is that nobodies perfect and that women need to take a look at their expectations and ask if they are realistic. If your expectations are unreachable then you will never be satisfied with anyone. Its one thing to demand respect and another to be nit picky about thing that shouldn't matter. I don't agree that their is NO Mr.Right. We all know what we want in a relationship and I gotta believe that their is a Man out there that can give me at least 80% of that. I know that we all have to make compromises in relationships but, I feel that most things can be over looked as long as the Love, Respect and Monogamy is there. OK, so he leaves the toilet seat up!...lol is that really a reason to kick him to the curb? Its all about realistic expectation and letting him know what you want up front. So if he messes up he has been warned and if he continues then you make the choice if this is something you can or can not live with, or if he is someone you can't live with out. Most men are not aware of some of the things they do wrong that we consider unacceptable..... so talk to your man let him know whats up and If he cont's then you don't need him anyway! On the other hand this could mean that MR. Right on Time is someone that you are settling for and trying to TWIRK to make it work! Now all been in this situation and we know this is some bull.... We are all adults and frankly getting to old to be wasting time with things or people we know are not what we really want! If you have a MR. Right now see it for what it is because trust me a man does. He will ride it to the wheel fall off and think everything is cool mean while you are the person that is Un-happy! Don't fall for MR. Right On Time just for the sake of saying that you have a Man!!! In the end we can all do Bad by ourselves. Mr. Right On Time will have his cake and eat all of yours, while you are starving for Love and Attention..... But in this situation how can you complain about it because you knew in the first place that this was Mr. Right On Time and in most cases he also Let you know what it was! So don't trick yourself into false illusions and see thing for what they are. Either you can continue to Kiss many frogs to get to that Prince. Or you can live with the fact that he is a Frog and over look the fact that he is not a Prince. I feel that as long as you are happy and he is providing you with Honesty, Love and Ccommitment you can then TWIRK the other little things and he will be your MR.RIGHT and that will come Right on time!!!!!
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