Why is it when we are at work and should be focused on the task assigned to us we cant seem to keep our eyes open? Its not like the job is boring (in some cases) so what is it in our brain that makes us so sleepy? I know me personally today has been one of those days. I got what I thought was a good night sleep,but yet I yawn all day and can barely keep my eyes open! Did you know Hypersomnia, is a strong desire to sleep during waking or daytime hours((: What Are the Causes of Drowsiness? | eHow.com http://www.ehow.com/about_5097741_causes-drowsiness.html#ixzz1IxadUcTI This is soooo me!!! I can take the best naps during the day.
Then have you ever been so tired and sleepy that once you got home or in the car you were wide awake? I think it has to be the Job atmosphere! There has to be some scientific reason that I keep yawning! I guess I need to try a 5 hr energy even though my job last more than 5 hours lol. Why did they choose 5 hrs? Most people in America work 8 hrs... Things that make you go Hmmmm lol
Friday, April 8, 2011
Thursday, April 7, 2011
Breaking Up is a Revolving Door
I have been in many relationship some of them were very hard to let go of. And there were also some that were all to easy to say good-bye to! It never fails that in a relationship one person has more feeling for the other than you may have for them or vice/versa.... In the case of all relationships Trust is the number one thing that has to be established. There is NO reason not to trust your partner if he/ she has not given you a reason not to.Insecurities can plague a relationship and can cause unnecessary friction.
Communication is the second thing that is very important. Without this, one or both people involved will most likely feel that there needs are not being met. In a relationship in order for it to work fully and be successful needs have to be met.
We all have individual needs but the basics are (women) Love, Protection and Security.
Love : woman are emotional creatures and need to be told that the person that chose to love back loves them. Love is not only a word but an action also. Please remember that!!!!!! Males on the other hand need to feel Wanted, Loved and Appreciated. Men like to feel loved as well but, who wouldn't? Males just tend to look at love differently. They also need to feel needed and wanted for their egos. If a man cant protect and provide he feels less than so even if he is acting and not doing, let him it will work out in your favor in the end.
If all these basic needs are achieved then in theory the relationship should be a successful. Nobody can tell you how true this is but from my experiences it is a Great start although the ending is up to you.
MY RELATIONSHIP HAS ENDED NOT ON A BAD NOTE BUT NOT SO GOOD EITHER. MY BASIC NEEDS WERE NOT BEING MET AND I REFUSED TO PUT UP WITH NON-COMMUNICATION. I FEEL THAT IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS EVERYONE HAS SOMETHING THEY CAN WORK ON AND MAYBE ONE DAY YOU CAN TRY AGAIN.
In the end we are all looking for that one that we can not and will not live with out. Are they really out there? Can this be a myth that we have been brain washed to believe just to make life alil easier to tolerate. Knowing that one day you could run into the one that will make all your dreams come tru will definitely be easier than to grow up knowing that only 25% of people will find a mate and 10% a soul mate. How you like them apples? (lol) Truth don't feel so good and you chances are not looking all that good is it? Well who knows you may be apart of the 35% that will find happiness so Keep Looking! I know I will.....
Until Nxt Time Love Often and Love Hard...007
Communication is the second thing that is very important. Without this, one or both people involved will most likely feel that there needs are not being met. In a relationship in order for it to work fully and be successful needs have to be met.
We all have individual needs but the basics are (women) Love, Protection and Security.
Love : woman are emotional creatures and need to be told that the person that chose to love back loves them. Love is not only a word but an action also. Please remember that!!!!!! Males on the other hand need to feel Wanted, Loved and Appreciated. Men like to feel loved as well but, who wouldn't? Males just tend to look at love differently. They also need to feel needed and wanted for their egos. If a man cant protect and provide he feels less than so even if he is acting and not doing, let him it will work out in your favor in the end.
If all these basic needs are achieved then in theory the relationship should be a successful. Nobody can tell you how true this is but from my experiences it is a Great start although the ending is up to you.
MY RELATIONSHIP HAS ENDED NOT ON A BAD NOTE BUT NOT SO GOOD EITHER. MY BASIC NEEDS WERE NOT BEING MET AND I REFUSED TO PUT UP WITH NON-COMMUNICATION. I FEEL THAT IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS EVERYONE HAS SOMETHING THEY CAN WORK ON AND MAYBE ONE DAY YOU CAN TRY AGAIN.
In the end we are all looking for that one that we can not and will not live with out. Are they really out there? Can this be a myth that we have been brain washed to believe just to make life alil easier to tolerate. Knowing that one day you could run into the one that will make all your dreams come tru will definitely be easier than to grow up knowing that only 25% of people will find a mate and 10% a soul mate. How you like them apples? (lol) Truth don't feel so good and you chances are not looking all that good is it? Well who knows you may be apart of the 35% that will find happiness so Keep Looking! I know I will.....
Until Nxt Time Love Often and Love Hard...007
Be Careful What you ask for?
I have been living in this state almost 3 years. I wonder if the the term Home Sick was made just for me? I'm not sure if I miss home (Oklahoma) as much as I miss my Family and Friends. Home is always so easy. You know where to go, what to do and it becomes boring and then you want to leave for something New!
Well I decided that I was going to move and start over new. So I searched for jobs and found one here in Irving. Moved in 2 weeks! I had a new place, a new job and a new life.... After a few week I felt that I had made the biggest mistake of my life ,but I had to live with it at this point. I enrolled in school and tryed to make the best of my situation and at times it was good, but most times it was bad. I got lonely.... No friends or Boyfriend, no family it was NOT cool at all. (just because it was a new life didn't mean a good life) So I got involved in a few activities. Met a few new friends,but still it was nothing like Home. I guess the saying the Grass is not always Greener on the other side was Right! Now its 3 years later and Im still Home Sick..... UGH.....
Well I decided that I was going to move and start over new. So I searched for jobs and found one here in Irving. Moved in 2 weeks! I had a new place, a new job and a new life.... After a few week I felt that I had made the biggest mistake of my life ,but I had to live with it at this point. I enrolled in school and tryed to make the best of my situation and at times it was good, but most times it was bad. I got lonely.... No friends or Boyfriend, no family it was NOT cool at all. (just because it was a new life didn't mean a good life) So I got involved in a few activities. Met a few new friends,but still it was nothing like Home. I guess the saying the Grass is not always Greener on the other side was Right! Now its 3 years later and Im still Home Sick..... UGH.....
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